Today I had a student ask me a question. A really Poignant question.
"Do you believe that things you do will come back and effect you later".
I said "Yes", and then paused and said "But I have kids".
I have actually been thinking about this a lot lately. Life seems to be going really fast and I seem unable of catching my breath and yesterday I feel like I took out my Frustration on my kids. I was Short with them and even Angry. I found myself later wondering if my lapses in "adult" control will ultimately effect how my sweet boys see and interact with the world, and that really worries me. Because I have kids, I find myself thinking through decisions more slowly and introspectively because I know they won't just effect me, but also these innocent spirits in my home.
I looked at this young kid with his whole life and a million choices ahead of him, dismissing the things he could do that would "effect him later".
Then he told me he got a girl pregnant............